August 2009

My fellow moms,

I owe you an enormous apology for not having posted preliminary findings of our survey, having promised I would do it a very long time ago.  I offer this note not by way of excuse, but just explanation – over the last few years, I have been consumed in trying to work through some unanticipated work-related emergencies

(http://www.villagevoice.com/2008-07-02/news/columbia-s-knotty-noose-problem/

http://www.villagevoice.com/2008-07-09/news/Columbia-Knotty-Noose-part-two/).

Just things were settling down at work last spring, my children’s father asked for a divorce; I bought a house, did extensive repairs, and saw my kids through their senior and freshman years of high school. 

On the bright side, however, I’m finally back at work!  And as soon as I was able to, the first thing I got to was analyses of MomsAsPeople responses. 

I’m delighted to tell you that the findings so far are nothing short of wonderful.  It appears, indeed, that we are collectively giving voice to several critically important aspects being a mom in today’s day and age.  Things entirely ignored by developmental psychologists thus far.

Having seen these preliminary data (on over 2,500 moms) along with suggestions you offered, I’ve refined the survey somewhat: I’ve removed some largely irrelevant questions and added some of likely importance. Additionally, the survey has been expanded to include moms with adult children; please do pass the link on to any older moms you know.  Many women have already said they've been fascinated in comparing notes with their own mothers on responses to these questions.

I’d like very much to invite you, too, to complete the new version of the survey -- the more responses we get, the more convincing the findings will be.  If you’d be willing, please click below on “I’ve done the old survey; Start new version”.  At the end, as before, you’ll have the option of entering your email address so that I can directly send the results we’ve got so far.  They’re summarized and ready to go.

If you’d rather not complete the new version of the survey but would like to see the preliminary results, of course, I’d be happy to send them to you.  Please click below on “I’ve done the old survey; please send findings” and you’ll be asked to enter your email address below.

Again, my apologies for the delay, sincere thanks for your collaboration with me, and warm regards,

Suniya

I’ve done the old survey; Start new version

I’ve done the old survey; please send findings